I Need Dating Advice

1. Strike up a conversation with 10 strangers a day. You’ll build up an immunity to rejection, and you’ll practice icebreakers and quick responses.  So when a women comes into range, muscle memory will kick in says Nancy Slotnick, a dating coach and the founder of cablight.com

2. Carry a neighbor’s bags. One truism: Women have friends. A second truism; Women want to fix people up.  Show that you’re a good guy, and you’ll start collecting numbers, says psychotherapist Sharyn Wolf, authoer of Guerilla Dating tactics; Stratagies, Tips, and Secrets for Finding Romance.

3.  Pretend you’ve already been introduced.  Your mindset will shift from hunting to  having a casual conversation, and most important, she won’t see you as yet another guy hitting on her, says dating coach Evan Marc Katz.

4.  Leave the Office. On nice days, women eat lunch ouside,Wolf says. Remember to turn off the phone and ditch the shades.

5.  Don’t interrogate. She doesn’y know you, so questions are intrusive and make her feel like she’s being evaulated.  You want to engage rather then gather information, so share first - ” I’m youngest of three how about you? ” - and she’ll respond comfortably, Wolf says.

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