10 Bar Pickup Rules from a Man
10 Bar Pickup Rules from a Man
Rule 1: Do a scouting report to assess your target and be observant. Look for rings, (class, engagement, wedding, etc.) tattoos, earrings, purse, keys, photographs, anything that might help give you something to talk about when you approach her.
Rule 2: Staring to let her know you are interested works. If you happen to lock eyes on each other, do not look away (unless she has a 300lb. boyfriend standing beside her ready to pound you into the ground.) Hold her gaze to express your interest and wave or smile to break the stare if the gaze begins to last freakishly long.
Rule 3: Seize the moment. When you see an opportunity, be prepared to act.
Rule 4: It is almost never good to sneak up on a woman you do not know from behind as you can scare her, startle her, or engage her defenses before you get one word out.
Rule 5: Do not buy drinks for women you have not met to preface an introduction. You are marketing yourself with a free introductory offer like a cell phone contract or magazine subscription. Quit it. Bring value in who you are, how you carry yourself and what you say and she just might buy you a drink to get you to stay.
Rule 6: It can take a lot of confidence to approach a table full of women. Confidence in check, engage them immediately with a neutral question or helpful piece of information that gets you closer to your desired result. If you want to date a “10” you should at least have the courage to go talk to a “10” when the opportunity presents itself, otherwise stick with your “5’s” and stop your b*tching.
Rule 7: Know when to cut bait. There are more women out there. Approximately 5000 young women turn 18 every day in this country.
Rule 9: Never act as if the woman you are after is the only beautiful woman on the planet as it can come across as a sign of desperation and will make her feel just as comfortable with you as she would feel wearing sandpaper panties. You both rub her the wrong way.
Rule 10: Never underestimate the value of a good wingman.
Bonus Rule: Try to avoid spending several hours talking to one woman you just met at a club, bar, or party. Spend five or ten minutes piquing her interest and break it off asking for an email address or phone number. Rinse and repeat this cycle a couple of time in a given night and contact them over the next several days. Except on rare occasions, if you spend all of your time with one woman you are at risk of getting blown off at the end of the night with nothing to show for your efforts.
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