Mixed signals a woman is sending
I am confused about mixed signals a woman is sending to me. From day one she has been flirty and open about her vulnerabilities to me yet when I do the same she backs away.
She acts cutesy towards me yet when I do the same she seems aggravated. She doesn’t seem to take my reciprocation well. I almost feel like I’m being subjected to a double standard in that when I expose a hole in my confidence, she seems taken aback.
Certain types of women love macho guys and disclosing too much of yourself early on can have negative side effects as you have witnessed.
It might be the case that she was raised in a very masculine family environment. An environment whereby men are men in that they are tough, do not show any weaknesses and they just plow ahead no matter what setbacks befalls them.
Nothing becomes natural until you do it for a while
In that it sounds like that she prefers that type of men you may have some compatibility issues to contend with if you do get together with her. To this extent you probably want to look for someone who is a bit more understanding to your cause.
I must emphasize the need to refrain from disclosing too much of yourself early on in a relationship. There is a time and place for that later on but at the beginning you do not want to sound needy. Try to put your best foot forward when next you meet someone.
Act confident even if you’re scared to death
Bottom line: Sometimes girls, who are extremely attractive and popular, flirt with those who set them on pedestals. If these subordinates continue to follow the song of the siren, the rocky coast eventually crushes them.
If the flirtation is shut-down during your advances consider it just an innocent flirtation. Move on and abort the mission and look for other fish elsewhere. To continue is your doom. For more tips about reading flirtatious signs, refer to e-books in series “ Relationships: Puzzles and Answers ” :
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